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Ways To Attract Beautiful Girls

No matter what, there are going to be times when you are going to  wonder how you can make yourself more attractive to beautiful girls. The good thing is that it is really not that difficult to do so long as you follow some basic rules of being a gentleman and not just act like some “cool” type of person. Girls will always tend to fall hard for a guy who seems to be worth something rather than a guy who is just looking to use her for whatever reason Women tend to have a pretty good sense in knowing when a guy is genuinely good versus when he is just trying to use her.

The one thing you must remember is that you should never try to be someone your not just to impress a girl. If she doesn’t like you for who you are, than that’s will be her loss. Girls tend to hate guys who always show off and brag about themselves and everything they have. You will come to realize that it doesn’t matter how beautiful a girl is, she could really doesn’t care about what kind of car you drive or how much jewellery you might own. If you do brag, you run the risk of losing your chances with her.

Also it is best to brush up on your manners. Manners are another thing that women in general find appealing and it could even help you be more noticed than any other guy in the room. Just simple things like opening the door for her and pushing her chair in will not just swoon her, but it will certainly leave a great impression to her where she will feel as if you are treating her the way is supposed to be treated. Don’t forget to always be proper and try not to use slang terms until you are much more comfortable with her. Usually by the third date, if she uses a slang term or two, then it’s usually okay for you to do it as well.

So as you can see, when you are approaching women the ways to be more attractive are really not that difficult. So long as you are respectful and show her some manners you really should have no problem being attractive to the right girl for you – even if she is beautiful or drop dead gorgeous. The first impression is almost always the best impression and you’ll only have a few minutes to make that first impression a good one, or else you run the risk of losing her to some other guy.

The Secrets To Attract Beautiful Women

As a man, you may have been having trouble attracting beautiful women especially very beautiful women. However, there is no need for you to be. All women need so as to be attracted to you are certain traits. For instance, women love men who are able to make them feel good about themselves i.e. possess a good sense of humor. By expressing a genuine interest in entertaining the woman of your choice you will soon see how attracted to you she will be.

The next secret is to always be there to listen to everything she has to say. The mistake with most men is that most men think that women talk a lot and do not pay any attention to what they say. However, women will always notice when you are not listening to her.  As a man who is seeking to get a beautiful woman, make the effort to remember everything about her; what she likes, what she dislikes and her favorite food and flowers. By doing so, I can guarantee that the woman will be impressed.

As said before, having a good sense of humor is an essential requirement to attracting any beautiful woman. This is important as it appeals to their inner feelings. Remember, women are very emotional beings and thus will be attracted to this quality. Tell her your feelings especially if you have developed a deep relationship. At the start of the relationship, try not to mention very deep things.

Think holding a conversation with a woman is not important? Think again. Women are seriously attracted to men who can hold their own in a conversation. This is important as it tells of the man’s assertiveness as well as his level of confidence. Keep the topics of the conversation light as you try to find which particular topic piques her interest.

The most important secret that every man should know especially when you are approaching women is that being confident is vital to attracting. When walking in for a date, do not hesitate, walk straight up to the woman and greet her. Do not let her beauty intimidate you. At times it would be better to let the woman make her move. Give her space and let the conversation flow. Take it easy and see where thing lead. Be confident in your ability to attract her to you and do not falter in any way. However, remember to keep your cool and do not let your eagerness get the better of you.

 

 
Dating and Approaching Women is a Numbers Game

Some people will tell you dating and approaching women is a numbers game. The more girls you approach, the more chances one of them will say yes. Right? In one way I agree with this, but in another way I strongly disagree too.

Now quantum physics tells us that if you walk back and forward into a brick wall, the wall will eventually give way and you can walk through. Not being a quantum physicist I won’t disagree about that point, but wouldn’t it be easier to use the gate and just walk through, continuing on your journey?

I see so many guys trying to walk back and forward through a brick wall when it comes to approaching women. They try the same thing over and over again with little or no luck at all. Let’s have a look at a few reasons guys seem to not have the success they want when it comes to approaching women.

Most guys aren’t flexible in communication. If you ever watch a guy who is very good with women he understands what works with one woman will not always work with another. He also notices the environment they are both in. If you are talking to a women learn to be flexible, if you are telling a story and she cuts in with something else run with it.

I don’t know why but these days nobody seems to take notice of the response from the other person when they are listening to you, they are far too busy talking. When you’re speaking to a new person, look at them; are they into what you’re saying? Are they enjoying your story? If so, amp it up a little! If they are trying to run, change it. Next time you speak with somebody look at the results your communicating is getting you.

Has somebody ever given you a compliment that you knew had not only been fake, but the only reason they said it was because they wanted something? This is the feeling every a female feels when a guy tries to compliment her just to get her to give her number to him. We will talk more about compliments, but rule of thumb is: no more than one compliment in the first meeting and please be original with it!

Where do you live? Do you live in the real world or do you live in your head? The one factor that really affects guys is when they see a beautiful girl they want to meet, then think about all the things that could go wrong if he went up to say hello. My advice for this is%u2026 why not thinking about all the things that will go RIGHT when you approach her?

The last thing I would like to talk about is the obsessive mentality of some guys. They see a girl and get obsessed by her; this is a big killer. Before I go further with this point let me say, I have no problems with people obsessing over girls if they are your wife or girlfriend and it’s a mutual feeling; but to be obsessed by a girl you have known for five minutes will kill any attraction she may have had for you. Next time you see a girl you find attractive think to yourself “there are probably 100 more like her within a 10 km radius”.

 

Approaching Women At The Gym

Approaching women at the gym is not very different to approaching them anywhere else. The key thing here is to have confidence, and oodles of it. When you’re at a gym one of the things you need to be mindful of when speaking to women is that some of them are quite sensitive about their figure. This is most likely why they’ve come to the gym to work out because like everyone else at the gym, they’re concerned about how they look and want to improve it. So steer clear of all comments regarding her weight or figure and you should be okay.

Before you decide to approach that woman you have seen working out in the gym and can’t get your eyes off, you might want to improve your own physique if you feel you need to, and if you’re already on the way to being Mr. Universe, you could impress your lady friend by showing her your muscles; subtly of course. Walking up to her and flexing them is not likely to impress any woman, Tarzan.

As you are in a gym, sweating slightly isn’t such a bad thing. In fact some women may be turned on by the sweat glistening on a well-toned body. On the other hand, if you are sweating profusely, I mean beads of sweat just oozing out of every pore, you might want to rub yourself down first. Also make sure you have applied some deodorant! This isn’t rocket science. If you’ve been working out and haven’t applied deodorant, you are likely to smell and chicks don’t dig smelly guys.

If you have a good physique and the looks to match, you could try to catch her attention by lifting weights. You could always watch her work out and glance in her direction once in awhile. Make sure you aren’t staring as this may be a turn-off. Your best time to talk to her would be after her work out.

Start the conversation off by telling her that you were impressed by her workout and then tell her your name. If she shows some interest, ask her for her name and offer her something to drink, so you can both take a break. Because you’re both at the gym, that would be an ideal starting point for your conversation. Just make sure you look like you’ve actually worked out a bit so that you don’t come off as someone who goes to gyms to pick up chicks.

Maintain eye contact and avoid staring at her body. You want to show her you’re interested in her, but this doesn’t prevent you from making positive comments about her figure in a nice way.

Approaching women at the gym is not only for guys with bulging biceps. If you don’t have the best physique you could approach her and ask her for some ideas on how to work out. You might even get ask her to instruct you on some techniques.

So approaching women at the gym is not all that difficult with the right attitude and a good dose of self-confidence.

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